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Regardless of the type of how to talk like a dom that you may be in, talking dirty to your lover during sex will pay huge dividends to both you and your partner if done correctly. I can not speak with any accuracy regarding the history of the noises, sounds, and dirty talk that have accompanied sex from the beginning of time but I can share my hypothesis regarding some of the factors toward our prudish approach in the twenty first century. It was not too long ago when using any profanity, especially in public or in front of a lady, would have been inconceivable and completely preposterous. In fact, as a gentleman, I believe in this standard today as well, you will most likely never overhear me swear in the presence of a lady, in fact, you may never hear me swear at all. Women have been brought up with the belief that profane language is vulgar and unladylike and therefore should not be used by them or by others in their presence at anytime and under any circumstances.

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Even the floor if nothing sturdy is nearby. If you had you would not have made it this far nor would you still be reading. You might look like a fool if you tell your partner you are going to make them cum now then spent two minutes working hard to make your statement true. If you take this route you will need to have an alternative al in place putting a greater need on you to pay attention.

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If there is something you can lift, push aside, or just reach into then do that. Sure I gave a less than exciting lecture about communication at the beginning but this is not the same thing.

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Now I suppose you want some more aggressive options huh? Spankings should be alternated with rubbing. You are not out to inflict pain or cause harm, however with spanking you should not be afraid to leave some temporary marks.

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Do not forget to make your partner pleasure you. Many of the tasks above are taxing and exhausting both mentally and physically.

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When the safeword is used that means the session is over. Pin their arms either above their head or to their sides. Bondage can range from fuzzy handcuffs, to Shibari, to dog suits. Not like you are trying to be sly about what you are touching. Just because you are dominating the situation does not mean you are the only one being active.

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Even if the place you choose that is not inherently sexually sensitive biting will still have the same effect, just larger, as the scratching did earlier. If you are wanting something swift and quick, or you want it to have the swift and quick feeling feel free to skip some traditional steps. This weakens their position putting them even more at your mercy but it also nullifies the concept of a safeword. Well to bad here they are. This typically involves knowing your partner well enough to tell when they are ready. Taking things a step to far can lead to ruining the whole thing for your partner.

Then you get to decide, are you going to make them orgasm again? There is no part of your body which you can inflict more excitement or arousal with than your mouth. So enough of my rambling.

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Attach the handcuffs to the headboard so their hands are out of the way and yet both of your hands are free to roam, explore and claim their body. You can always discuss new boundaries or ask for permission to do more. A good way of keeping them engaged can be to keep them busy too.

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Next time around add more of the former and drop some of the latter. Have you had your fill? Taunt them a bit by telling them they did this to you. Grab them by the chin, the sides of the face, or the back of the neck and kiss them like your survival depends upon it. Always keep talking. Grind up against them. Domination is not about abuse, your goal is not to force your partner beyond their limits.

Or take it further by tying each of their hands and feet to a separate bedpost spreading them out completely. When you are pleasuring your partner talk dirty to them. Before We Begin Before we get to far there are a few things to consider.

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First you and your partner need to discuss these things and define your comfort zone. You should make an effort to be aware of s of them being uncomfortable or anxious.

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I feel obligated to draw your attention back to the safeword and other similar safety content at the top. Maybe you want to use this as a means to better pin their hands. Your partner needs to be comfortable using the safeword. Your mouth belongs on everything. For the purpose of this guide, your safety, and not scaring you away I will start with the most gentle stuff and move on up. If your partner is laying on their back walk around so you are over their face and tell them to those cute sounds they are making to good use.

When you have them by the hair and you are directing them around tell them what to do even though you are already physically making them do it.

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Ask them what they think about what you are doing, ask them how they feel about what you are doing. Some calm bonding time to wind down is a big deal that should not be neglected. Against the wall, on the bed, bent over a table or counter, on the couch or table. You can use it as a handle to gently steer then in the direction you want to look.

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After this you need to comfort your partner making sure this is not seen as a failure. They cannot do that if they feel doing so is the same as them failing you. Light scratching and spanking is a good way to keep the shock value up.

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The other end of the spectrum is to TELL your partner when they are going to cum. It could be at you, or you could even turn them around so you can get in behind them. Most of you may know this already but for those exploring this for the first time may of the things beyond this point run the risk of causing discomfort both emotional and physical.

After a session has come to an end regardless of how or why it ended you should spend some time with your partner. Grope them.

This may be a learning experience but it is absolutely not a mistake. Stroke their scalp slowly for a bit then take ahold of their hair giving it just a bit of a tug. Gagging is a great and common one yet easy to improvise. Still it is required that at all times they have some way to al you so they can stop this if they need to. Run your fingers through their hair. That being said domination can range the entire spectrum of everything sexual from pillow talk to things that could be considered torture in any other context.

This way while reading this, just like in the bedroom, you can go only as far as you feel comfortable with and stop. Before we get to far there are a few things to consider.

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Not only does this keep their mind in the game but it keeps them from being able to predict or anticipate what you will do next allowing it to be a greater surprise and have a greater effect. This however is not the only thing you should be aware of. This is a guide not a tutorial meaning you should use this as a means to seed ideas but not as a step by step how-to.

The situation may be salvageable or it may be time to end the session. This may very well mean no second chance. Steer your partner to the floor while you tell them to pleasure you. Use them!

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Not all problems are so clear cut even for the sub. This may prove more difficult if you are female and your partner is male given they will usually be stronger than you. You want to get to the details, right? Grope them like you are claiming what you are grabbing.

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The scratching is not about leaving marks, or inflicting pain. You may discuss what went wrong but do not attempt to. This comfort zone is not a goal for you to overcome. When you disrespect those boundaries you disrespect that trust. Maintain control of their hands with one of yours.

The safeword is the all stop last resort. So are you satisfied with all of these ideas? Some things on the gentle list may be off limits to you even though some more advanced or more aggressive things are great for you. Give them a good smack then rub it to sooth it. Spanking should be seen in a similar light. Something that cannot be stressed enough is to consider that your partner is not the same as all others.

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So you may start with handcuffs to bind their hands limiting their control and making them easier to direct. Lean in as you do and say something like. There is no need to be patient. First thing to consider is that domination itself is not a specific act but more of a context on how that act is applied. Every successive session should build upon the one before it.

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Bondage; such a big broad topic and likely the largest stereotypical activity aside from spankings. Bondage is mostly a tool to strip away their agency and put them at your mercy. Both with the idea of teasing them and drawing it out, or inflicting orgasm upon them multiple times you can use this in several ways.

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If you're looking to have a lovemaking experience that's a little less like The Notebook and a little more like Fifty Shades of Greythen it might be time to experiment with BDSM.

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This scenario may not actually be overlooked, it may be outright avoided as it is difficult for most new Dominants to perform this simple deed.

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The use of words, sounds, and noises during sexual activity to give and get consent, instruct, construct a fantasy, build arousal or tension, and ultimately enhance connection between you and your partner s.